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Sunday, October 30, 2005
[ 30.10.05 ]
Love? Guys? Making Love? What's all these?
I was surfing the net this few days and I came across those articles. Yeah. Like Getting turned on. Stuff that makes people "happy". Errr...Stuff like that ya?
See no evil,hear no evil. =X
Anyway,what's there to hide? I mean we want to explore too. It isn't anything bad or something. It's just part of our lives. What can I say? Some people deny alot but who knows what kind of devil he or she is inside. Haha. Ok,let's not be so devilish already. Are you that *ahem* devil? =D La La LA. ^_^ <-- Innocent me. Bleah! I wonder what people think when people mention the word "sex". Yes,yes. Male or female but some think otherwise. Even if they do,it isn't really that bad actually but some people make it seems to be disgusting. Very disgusting that people take it as something pervertic to talk about. I mean it's the way you put it as. It's your point of view to either make it disgusting or otherwise. Anyway,I should not be talking about how to turn it "on". I should talk about staying safe. =) Well... I'm reading this article now. Well? You read on ya?
Don't give your trust away
In a perfect world we would all be governed by an innate desire to love and respect one another.
In that world, trust would be our default assumption. But in today's real and virtual and worlds, you must guard against trusting the untrustworthy and giving away your love under circumstances that could come back to haunt you. Exercise caution and proceed slowly. What do you really know about this person? How can you be sure? Any suitor must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior.
Don't give it away for the asking -- and you will be asked. As an added precaution, consider setting up a secondary email account, to be used just for this relationship, which you can shut down should things seem not right.
Honor your hunches
We are intuitive people, yet we often dismiss intuition in favor of seemingly hard facts and logical explanations.
Trust yourself. Go with your instincts, even when they can't be logically explained. When something feels wrong, it generally is. When someone appears untrustworthy, they usually are. If you want to substantiate an intuitive hunch, hire a service to check on your suitor's background (criminal records, home ownership, bankruptcy, divorce, etc.). These services can be found on the Web or in your Yellow Pages under Investigators. While background information may reassure you about someone's history, it provides no guarantees about future behavior. Ask yourself why you are dating someone you feel the need to investigate.
Watch for red flags
The trained eye often easily spots the unscrupulous. They betray themselves with inconsistency and unexplainable behavior. You should be concerned if your date does any of the following without providing an acceptable explanation:
Frequently disappears and becomes unreachable by phone or email
Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, and so on
Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy
Refuses to give you a home number and only calls you from work
Doesn't provide direct answers to direct questions
Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona
Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members
Be responsible and trustworthy yourself
Some say that the lines between honesty, exaggeration and deception have blurred, especially in print personals and online dating. Is it a crime to represent yourself as a few years younger, especially when your friends frequently comment that you don't look your age? Has thinning hair become a euphemism for bald? If we want to hear the truth, we must start by telling the truth, even when it isn't easy or advantageous. And we must conduct ourselves and our romances in a responsible manner. Don't fall in love at the click of a mouse. Don't become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.
Live by standards of honesty and decency. Let the buck stop with you.
Yeah. That's about it. =)
*Yawns* 11.38PM now. Should I change phone again? Haha. Ok,I'll stop here for now.
Later!
Peace out.
D-Illusionist----x
♥Ashley Kid♥ × ♠11:38:00 pm♠
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// What does your sleeping position says about you?
What Your Sleeping Position Says
Friends consider you to be kind, caring, and truly loyal.
You are easy going and trusting. However, you are too sensible to fall for mind games.
Open to the world, you are not afraid to be yourself.
If you don't get enough sleep, you are: Able to cope
It's hard to sleep next to you because: You're a bed hog
// What's your love type
Your Love Type: ISFJ
In love, you are quietly intense, devoted, and tend too hold on too long.
For you, sex is a way to get closer - and a way to take care of your partner.
Overall, you are altruistic and eager to please your sweetie.
However, you tend to also be non-confrontational and secretly frustrated with relationship issues.
Best matches: ESTP or ESFP
// Are you too picky when it comes to men?
You Are Picky When it Counts
But you're also willing to put up with a few flaws in your Mr. Right
You should congratulate yourself on having a realistic approach to dating.
You probably have quite a few great guys you can date!
// What kind of sexy girl are you?
You Are Fun Sexy
Guys always have a great time with you, and that alone is sexy.
You've got an upbeat, optimistic spirit that totally shines through.
Any guy would be crazy to turn you down!
// What kind of girl are you?
You are a Brainy Girl!
You know a little bit about everything, and you're always dying to know more.
For a guy to win your heart, he's got to share some of your intellectual interests.
A awesome book collection of his own doesn't hurt either!
// Are you spoiled?
You Are 24% Spoiled
You appreciate each gift you're given - and you don't dwell on what you "deserve" to have.
// What flavour Pocky are you?
You Are Flan Pocky
East meets west... sweet meets salty.
You're a pro at bringing unusual combos together!
// Could you be violent?
There's a Chance You Could Be Violent
Sometimes your anger gets the best of you, and end up regretting how you act.
Try to curb your temper more often. It only has to get out of control once to do some damage.
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